Caring For Each Other Is Everything
You need to accept your partner wholeheartedly, only then you can enjoy the happiness of being together in a relationship. You need to establish a sense of familiarity with each other. Only familiarity can make you adjust with each other. Relationships which lack creativity tend to end in failure. You always need to be creative to reinvent your relationship. By doing things you are not becoming dependent on each other. Instead, you are interdependent on each other. You need to understand the difference between dependence and interdependence. Then only you can enjoy a relationship to the maximum. Never try to be independent in a relationship. It would take you no where. There is lot of joy and compassion when you are in a state of interdependence with each other. Appreciate it and don’t consider your relationships some sort of competition.
Start thinking that whatever you do together is an opportunity given by god to understand each other better. If you are going to a new city on a business trip, take your spouse with you. Going to a new place filled with strangers would make you understand each other better. If you are in home always read the jokes in magazines for her. Everybody loves jokes and a good sense of humor is vital to kindle intimacy. While reading jokes, change your voice for different characters. It would definitely amuse her and make her love you more.
A lot a day especially for her, get a tourist guide about the surroundings, take her with you and got to places where both of you have never gone before. Take her to auctions, craft sales and even flea markets. Surprise her with little gifts in new places. Giving is more important it does not matter what you give. Make her love your company in every way possible, both of you would not regret it.
There is a sense of attachment when it comes to things. You may have your own items and she may have her own items. Do remember that there are certain items that can be enjoyed together. Try getting matching pair of T-shirts. Gift a coffee mug which is an exact replica of yours. Do something through which she can realize that you love being with her. Make her realize that her presence itself is giving you joy.
Shopping need to be done as a couple, then only it could be enjoyed to the maximum. Gift a book based on her taste and you would definitely get your favorite pen as a gift in return. Find some new ways through which you can surprise her through these little things. Be creative and enjoy the feeling of togetherness.
Planning is vital in any relationship. Sit together in every month beginning and create a schedule where both of you would spend the time together. Honor the schedule and do remember the fact that couples who keep their relationships commitment at the priority tend to have a strong healthy relationship till the end.