How To Spice Up Your Romantic Life In 5 Easy Steps!
When you’ve reached a point in you marriage when you immediately fall asleep once your head hits the pillow without so much as a goodnight kiss to your spouse – then it’s definitely high time to add some spice to your romantic life.
It is definitely a challenge to keep the chemistry sizzling five years onto your marriage. This is especially true if you have both fallen into a comfortable routine where almost nothing that the other one does surprises you anymore.
Keep Your Romantic Life Sizzling in these 5 Easy Steps!
However, you need to remember that marriage takes a lot of work. You should keep the fire of your love burning by following these 5 easy steps:
- Ditch the sweat pants!
The tendency of married couples is to fall into this comfort zone where they feel complacent enough to wear sweatpants in front of each other. Nothing ruins a romantic mood more than sweat pants.
Also, this applies to more than just donning the most comfortable outfit that you can wear at home. For women, instead of wearing your oldest shirt to bed, a skimpy outfit which would make you feel as comfortable – but more desirable – is a must if you want to heat things up in the bedroom.
For men, nothing ruins a romantic mood more than letting yourself go that you forget to groom because you’ve too comfortable in front of your wife.
You owe it to each other to look good and make each other feel good, sexy and desirable all at the same time – no matter what your age is!
- Continue going on romantic dates.
If you have a house full of noisy kids, there is a huge possibility that you will hardly ever have some alone time together. If you need to, set aside a ‘date time’ from your work and home calendar so that you can keep that romantic fire burning in your marriage.
- Don’t forget to be touchy-feely with each other.
Can you believe that some couples barely ever have time for each other – or fall so much into a domestic bliss that they fail to hug or even kiss regularly? Make it a habit to reach out your intimacy with each other by doing a lot of touching, kissing and complimenting each other. This is a surefire way to bring the romance back into your relationship!
- Tease each other constantly.
Sometimes, it’s all about the anticipation of how your time together will be. Despite the busy schedule that you have in the house, you can take time to send each other naughty text or e-mail messages – or make out in your bedroom for a few minutes behind the chaos made by your kids.
The anticipation of the time that you will finally be together is definitely something to look forward to.
- Break your monotonous bedroom habits.
This is another trap that most married couples fall into. If you keep on having the same routine in bed, change things up a bit by purchasing adult toys, renting a video or ditching the bedroom altogether as a place to have sex. The variety and excitement will make sizzle things up between you and your husband again.
With these easy to follow tips, you can spice up your romantic life and remember all the best times that you and your spouse had together as a couple!